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by Ben Stuart (Author)


The book gives you a lot of food for thought which speculates about modern man issues in varying degrees. Some of the questions have never crossed your mind, but after reading the book you’ll find yourself thinking whether men should overcome the destructive barriers on the way to success or what do Slavic girls expect from Western men. You might think that Ben Stuart forces your opinion on you about marriage and dating, but don’t take it personal. In general Single, Dating, Engaged, Married apprises you to make peace with yourself and your self-realization as man. Let’s get some fresh perspective on the issues of male dominance in the society and in the family.

Editorial Reviews

I have met countless young adults whose lives have been changed by God working through the powerful ministry of Ben Stuart. His humor and wit, combined with his deep understanding God's word makes him one of the most engaging and impactful preachers of our time. He is not only an exceptional teacher of God's word, but his writings are inspiring and helpful for those who are seeking to understand the Lord's will. I am particularly excited about this resource! Over the past decade, I have seen tens of thousands of young adults who have gross misunderstandings of God's desires for relationships. Whether you are single, dating, engaged, or recently married, you will find this book to be a wealth of explanations, relevant illustrations, and helpful direction. Ben masterfully uses scripture to take us down a path of understanding what God intended for man, woman and marriage. I'd encourage you to read it, apply it and share it with others.

Jonathan Pokluda, teaching pastor, Watermark Church and leader of The Porch, Dallas, Texas

When Ben Stuart speaks I listen. God has given Ben the unique ability to articulate truth in a way that is gentle yet convicting, funny yet profound, weighty yet accessible. Single, Dating, Engaged, Married is an invaluable resource that will help countless young adults maximize joy and minimize unnecessary pain while navigating the various stages of romantic love. This is THE book on life and love I will point college student to for years to come.

Timothy Ateek, Executive Director, Breakaway Ministries

Single, Dating, Engaged, Married is the book I wish I had when I was younger, and will grateful to give to my sons. Ben is wise, authentic, humorous, and utterly effective at opening up God's Word in ways that transform a soul. I'm encouraged that people everywhere will benefit from the profoundly biblical insights that thousands have already heard in packed venues around the country...and some of us, here in Texas, have benefitted from for years. I recommend this book with unbridled enthusiasm!

Ken Werlein, Founding Pastor, Faithbridge Church, Houston, Texas

Product details

Paperback: 272 pages

Publisher: Thomas Nelson (September 12, 2017)

Language: English

ISBN-10: 0718097890

ISBN-13: 978-0718097899

Product Dimensions: 5.5 x 0.8 x 8.4 inches

Shipping Weight: 1.2 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)

Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,878 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

#11 in Christian Dating & Relationships (Books)

#17 in Christian Family & Relationships

What do they say?

Honestly, this needs to be a guideline for how everyone treats relationships. I love this book! It's so insightful, and very inspiring. Would highly recommend for anyone looking for something refreshing and real in relationships.


Everyone should read this.

It was a quick, easy read. I also love the book The Man God Has For You. I think both books can be read solo, in a small group, or to your daughter. This book really helped set a healthy thought process towards dating for me and singleness! I wish I read this book when I was younger. :)



In a society where it is becoming increasingly more difficult to identify what healthy relationships should look like, this book is a much needed compass. As a young person, it addressed relevant issues and questions so naturally. It is soaked in Scripture and easy to read. I would recommend this book wholeheartedly to anyone who wants to have healthy and whole relationships! Thanks, Ben, for making this resource!

Abigail Tesfaye

Great for all relationships!

About Ben Stuart

Ben Stuart is the Pastor of Passion City Church, Washington D.C. Prior to joining Passion City Church, Ben served for 11 years as the Executive Director of Breakaway Ministries, a weekly Bible study attended by thousands of college students on the campus of Texas A&M.

Ben earned a masters degree in Historical Theology from Dallas Theological Seminary. He is the author of the book, Single.Dating.Engaged.Married. as well as Life + Love, a study resource based on his book. Ben and his wife, Donna, live to inspire and equip people to walk with God for a lifetime. They live in The District with their three children.

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